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Ankita Bhobe's avatar

Love the article, it addresses a very common misconception, that Vedanta is essentially a form of positive thinking or an exercise in replacing negative beliefs with positive ones.

One additional thought that came to me was we don’t seek ourselves only from our professions or interests but even the relationships we play - mother, sister, wife, husband, friend, etc. Over time, these roles can become so deeply intertwined with our sense of self that we begin to experience them as who we fundamentally are, and if these roles are lost or altered, it leaves one feeling disoriented or with a void

I’m curious to see how Vedanta approaches this state, especially the aspect of identity.

1) Does the inquiry also involve examining these relational identities and distinguishing between the role we play and the deeper sense of “I” that exists independently of those roles?

2) And how does Vedanta reconcile this inquiry with the fact that we still have duties and responsibilities within these relationships?

Abhijeet Kislay's avatar

In terms of the two questions you asked, let me answer them below.

1) Does the inquiry also involve examining these relational identities and distinguishing between the role we play and the deeper sense of “I” that exists independently of those roles?

Yes! You exist independently of everything. We are told to first find our security within ourselves, and then stand firmly upon that knowledge.

2) And how does Vedanta reconcile this inquiry with the fact that we still have duties and responsibilities within these relationships?

The Bhagavad Gita is perhaps the best practical manual for understanding how to live this teaching. Krishna is very clear that this knowledge saves a person from conflict regarding their duties and makes them steady (sthita-prajna) in their worldly dealings.

Abhijeet Kislay's avatar

Awesome questions! Yeah, this is where Vedanta becomes even more uncompromising.

It posits that your “I” (or our “I”) is an independent, immortal, and fundamental entity that exists irrespective of any other upadhis, whatever they may be.

Some people fear that this kind of peeling away might break open the very ground they are standing upon. But that is not the right way to look at it, because if you don’t proactively undertake this inquiry through a proper study of Vedanta, then sorrowful incidents and life experiences will eventually end up doing the same thing for you.

Rather, it is better to do it consciously through spiritual inquiry and become completely established in one’s own Self.

That’s why Vedantic knowledge is sometimes called Self-realization or enlightenment. You appreciate, perhaps for the first time, that you exist independently of every single thing around you.

Or, to put it differently: your Existence is the fundamental unit of this creation, and nothing can ever destroy it.